Relationships suffer hiccups because most people are quick to lay the blame on their partners; no one wants to be held responsible for the problems encountered in the relationship. Women particularly are full of complaints as they would always pinpoint the faults of the men. Lots of women complain about the things men do in relationships, they whine and pine all day about men’s unfaithfulness and sense of insecurity they have. At this point it should be noted that not all men cheat, there are still a few faithful ones among them who are willing to try things out with the right woman. Yes, the right woman! This would lead us to the behaviors women often display in relationships. Some women honestly have to work on themselves as they do not have what it takes to hold a man down. Some of them lack the basic morals and cultural values a typical South African man wants in his woman. As much as men are driven by testosterone, they have certain specifications they want the women they would end up with to possess. Everything does not have to be about the men and the things they do. Sometimes, women need to work hard and find ways to make their men happy. A South African man who is truly happy in a relationship would always want to be with that special woman that sends his whole body on fire. Find below some of the things you can always do to make that South African man you are seeing happy:
1. Show Him Love
Oblivious to the fact that your girlfriends think your man would take you for a fool if you let him know you love him, do not suppress your emotions. Do not be afraid to show your man how much you love him; giving in to talks and advises like this would only douse your love and leave you weak when it is time to put up a fight for him. However, be fierce while you pour out the love in your heart; this would show that as much as you love recklessly, you can also become wild when your anger is fueled. Some South African men appreciate women they find mysterious.
2. Support Him
Relationships are not just about the good times alone; there are moments when the wind would blow and you would hear the demon in his roar. Do not let this move you an inch; your support during his moment of trials would earn you his respect and make him love you the more when he steps out of that phase. A typical South African man wants a woman who would lend him all the support he needs to achieve his goals.
3. Give Him Space
As much as you are in love with a man, you should learn to give him his space. Do not encroach his privacy, give him time to think and reflect on issues. If you keep playing a girlfriend, wife, and mother to him at the same time you may be testing his patience. You would be able to make your man happy if you take your time to study the tides and know his low and high seasons. This would also help you to know him better. Watch out for those hot little whores that are always looking out for other ladies’ men.
4. Feed Him Well
South African men do not joke with their stomach. Ensure that you feed that South African man you are dating well and you can be sure half of your problems would be taken away. Make sure you see to his well-being as it would keep him happy and glued to you. Men are not as bad as you think they are; all you need to do is let them see the good in you and they would stay with you as long as they keep getting that happiness and peace.
5. Stay In Shape
A South African man wants a woman he could boast of when he is with friends. Even if you are sweet, pleasant, well cultured and respectful, you have to stay in shape. No one is asking you to have a Coca-Сola shape if you are on the big side, you can still be fabulous even as you. Dress smartly, pay special attention to your hair, ensure you look pretty always and he would remain attracted to you.
6. Play Dirty With Him
Men get bored at times, they get tired of the norm and want something outside the pack. This could be weird but they would hit on other girls in order to feel like they are still in the game when they are tired. In order to keep your man and make him happy at the same time, you can flirt with him at times. Let him see different shades of you; this would generate sparks and add passion to your affair. Stop being rigid and oblige him when he wants to play an intimate game with you. However, do not do things that are below standard or things that would put your integrity at stake. Do not turn yourself into a puppy while seeing to a man’s happiness. Your happiness matters too.