Blesser steals son’s bae – report


A senior government official’s steamy affair with his teenage son’s 17-year-old girlfriend has blown up in his face.

The 47-year-old official, whose name has been withheld for legal reasons, works for the Gauteng provincial government, is a senior member of the South African Communist Party and is married to a top businesswoman.

A 17-year-old pupil's steamy affair with a married blesser ends in tears. Picture credit: Tsheko Kabasia.
A 17-year-old pupil’s steamy affair with a married blesser ends in tears. Picture credit: Tsheko Kabasia.

We are made to believe that the alleged love triangle involving his 18-year-old son and a 16-year-old school girl began in December last year.

The scorned girl, who is a Grade 10 learner at a school in Midrand, Gauteng, told Sunday World that she wanted to expose this blesser “because he slept with me without a condom while knowing he had an STI (sexually transmitted infection)”.

Asked to prove her claims of a relationship with the married man, the learner used this reporter’s smart phone to log onto her Facebook Page to retrieve raunchy messages between her and the blesser.

Messages between the girl and the Facebook account belonging to the official revealed a romantic relationship that started like a house on fire but ended with tears. The trail of messages showed, among others, the blesser asking for a threesome with the girl and one of her friends.

The school girl also sent nude pictures of herself to the account user upon request.

“He was overseas on a work trip in January and asked me to send him pictures of me naked,” she said.

The man deactivated his account after the girl started questioning him about the STI which she claims he intentionally infected her with while he knew he was sick.

Sunday World has seen the message exchanges between the girl and the government official, most of which are too sexually graphic to publish.

One message the man sent to the girl when they were supposed to meet reads: “Want to change the time, have to accompany the MEC at 12h00. U can come at 10h00 or 14h00.”

But more juicy details started flowing when he started asking the girl for a threesome with her friend.

The man pleaded with the young girl to be discreet about their deeds.

“…Pls tell your friend we don’t kiss and tell lol,” he said.

The girl asked her blesser to use a condom with her friend.

“And another thing please use a condom with her, I don’t trust girls nowadays,” she cautioned him.

The girl also pleaded with the official not to be attached to her friend. “Promise me you won’t catch feelings…”


The girl said she met the blesser when she was having “issues” with her boyfriend.

“He (blesser) contacted me and said he wanted to speak to me about something and that I should meet him at Maphungubwe hotel in Joburg. He sent a cab for me,” she said. She revealed that when she arrived at the hotel, the man offered her drinks, started kissing her and later slept with her without a condom.

“I felt like a prostitute because afterwards he gave me R800. I accepted the money because he appeared to be a gentleman who cared about me,” she said.

She said things went well for eight months until the blesser’s wife and son started insulting and threatening her.

She says she realised two days into her affair with the blesser that he was her boyfriend’s father.

She said her boyfriend called her names and accused her of sleeping with his father.

When she confronted the blesser about this, he allegedly laughed it off.

The 18-year-old son, who attended the same school as the girl, accused the girl of sending threatening messages to his mother, which landed her in hospital for depression.

The son wrote: “I told my dad I was going to speak to you anyway. You have got to understand that you not the only one with problems,” he said.


The girl said she went to see a doctor at the Waterfall Hospital in Midrand. “I went to the doctor with him and he paid R1500 for the test and my check up. That’s where I was told that I have an STI,” she said.

She said after the doctor’s visit, he started ignoring her, even deactivated his Facebook account to stop her from contacting him.

A Sunday World team spotted the girl and her blesser at Forest Hill City mall, in Centurion, on Friday afternoon having lunch at a restaurant.

Approached for comment, the blesser asked for questions to be emailed but he had not responded by the time of going to print.

He pleaded for his wife to be left out this story saying: “Please don’t involve her in this matter. Don’t call her please.”

His wife asked questions to be sent by SMS but also didn’t respond.

The man’s son also did not respond to an SMS and Facebook message sent to him.


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